Wednesday, June 4, 2025

Making Changes

 Looking at Mom now, you hardly would have guessed anything had ever happened. But of course, now she has to be a lot more careful about what she eats and drinks, and she needs to exercise more on top of checking her blood sugar regularly and taking her necessary diabetic medications every day. Such is the case for all of us.


I've never been one to dictate what other people should or shouldn't eat or drink. But when you think about it, it's amazing and rather scary how unhealthy most of us are. I was surprised to discover just how bad soda is; sure, a little soda on occasion won't do any real harm, but too much of it at a time (even just one can or bottle a week) all but guarantees disaster. It not only causes your blood sugar to skyrocket but it also sucks calcium from your bones, so it's not very tooth-friendly, and it's not the best thing for quenching your thirst. You're much better off drinking water and milk most of the time.


Fast foods and processed foods are pretty bad as well, and the effects are further sped up when you don't provide enough of a counterbalance with good food and exercise.


Not only that, but how much you eat at a time matters just as much. Ideally, vegetables should make up at least half your plate (leafy greens are best), you should eat more fruits than drink them in juices and smoothies, and whole grains fill you up better.


So while these lifestyle changes are taking some getting used to, I must admit it's a rather nice change. I'm losing some weight already; I've always been a bit on the plump side and so I'm at greater risk for diabetes myself, so this is good progress. I've spent a lot of time cooped up in my room, either on my bed or in front of my desk, but now I'm dedicating myself to a little outdoor walk every non-work morning, before it gets too hot, and we take Mom out for a little walk around our church (which is just across the street) in the evenings.


I'm forcing myself to go to bed sooner, too. I got in the habit of staying up pretty late, but I'm enforcing a stricter curfew for myself. Just last night, I probably had the best sleep I had in ages.


Nothing crazy or excessive. Just a little tweak here, a little tweak there, and maintaining consistency.

Monday, May 26, 2025

Memorable Memorial Day

Well, this has certainly been a memorable Memorial Day, for reasons both bad and good. I start with “bad” due to my mom being officially diagnosed with diabetes and staying in the hospital a lot longer than any of us have anticipated and I’m staying home and looking after my younger siblings, with my big sister Christine providing plenty of help. Even when Mom does get out of that hospital, life won’t ever be the same; we’ll all have to really watch what we eat and take better care of ourselves. 

And it’s been a wild emotional ride for me, by far the roughest patch I’ve been through since losing my dad ten years earlier. (As irony would have it, he died on June 2, mere days from now.) I’ve been so scared and confused and upset, trying to hope for the best but unable to help fearing the worst. The worst part is when I have to wait for the doctors’ official confirmation; even hearing that Dad was dead, as horrible as it was, was better than being kept in suspense with my imagination going crazy. We still don’t know when Mom will be able to come home and I already know things won’t be as they were when she does. 

And now I move onto the “good” part of today. I’ve been incredibly blessed these last few days with no lack of support from family and friends and our North Park ward family. This is the strongest I’ve felt the Holy Spirit in quite some time, and I’ve finally become more motivated to read the scriptures on a daily basis, something I never really made a solid habit. It’s safe to say I would never be able to get through something like this without God’s help and the kind service of others. There’s no way I would have gotten through Dad’s loss otherwise. 

I’ve expressed a wish several times (an understatement) that Dad could somehow be here during this hard time with Mom. I already know he’s here in spirit but a part of me still longs to have him here to talk to and hug. You all know how that is, that clash between your logical and sentimental self—your mind knows better but your heart protests just the same. And while we know how to get by without Mom at the house, that doesn’t stop me from feeling like a little girl who just wants her mommy back. 

A song I’ve listened to really stands out to me:

“My peace I give unto you.

It’s a peace that the world cannot give.

It’s a peace that the world cannot understand.

Peace to know, peace to live,

My peace I give unto you.”

How true that is. Absolutely nothing compares to the Savior’s grace and nothing makes you feel better like the Holy Ghost, even if your situation isn’t immediately resolved or resolved in the way you’d hoped.

We still have a long way to go. There’s no telling what tomorrow will bring, or the next day. But I feel motivated enough to take another step forward and another. I’m really trying to focus more on the Savior on the water than on the raging storm around us. 

And I know it’s not enough, but thank you to everyone who has reached out to me and my family and provided wonderful heartfelt service. It means a whole lot more than you realize.

Wednesday, April 2, 2025

Happy Birthday, Mike

 Happy birthday to my little brother

Val Kilmer

Rest well, Val Kilmer. You still give the absolute best portrayal of Moses I have ever seen and most likely ever will.

Monday, March 31, 2025

Happy Birthday, Grandpa

Happy 97th birthday, Grandpa. We all love you and miss you so much. Hope you and Grandma are doing well up there, and hopefully you and Dad are getting along nicely while still bantering like old times. 


(Sung to the tune of “Must Be Santa Claus”)


Who is the old and handsome dog?

Grandpa’s the old and handsome dog!

Who’s very handsome, but not a frog?

Grandpa’s very handsome but not a frog!

Handsome dog

Not a frog

Must be Grandpa!

Must be Grandpa!

Must be Grandpa, Grandpa Dahl!


Who gives out gifts of Andes Mints?

Grandpa gives gifts of Andes Mints!

Who’s always handy with helpful hints?

Grandpa’s so handy with helpful hints!

Andes Mints

Helpful hints

Handsome dog

Not a frog

Must be Grandpa!

Must be Grandpa!

Must be Grandpa, Grandpa Dahl!


Who’s always nice and warm and huggy?

Grandpa’s so nice and warm and huggy!

Who’s always saying, “Stay in the buggy”?

Grandpa always says, “Stay in the buggy!”

Warm and huggy

Stay in the buggy

Andes Mints

Helpful hints

Handsome dog

Not a frog

Must be Grandpa!

Must be Grandpa!

Must be Grandpa, Grandpa Dahl!


Who’s got the cozy fireplace?

It’s Grandpa’s cozy fireplace!

Who’s got that big smile on his face?

Grandpa wears a big smile on his face!

Fireplace

Smile on face

Warm and huggy

Stay in the buggy

Andes Mints

Helpful hints

Handsome dog

Not a frog

Must be Grandpa!

Must be Grandpa!

Must be Grandpa, Grandpa Dahl!


Who’s ready to fish in the stream?

Grandpa just loves his fishing stream!

Who feeds us cookies with cold ice cream?

Grandpa’s got lots of cold ice cream!

Fishing stream

Cold ice cream

Fireplace

Smile on face

Warm and huggy

Stay in the buggy

Andes Mints

Helpful hints

Handsome dog

Not a frog

Must be Grandpa!

Must be Grandpa!

Must be Grandpa, Grandpa Dahl!


(End of song)

Wednesday, March 19, 2025

Colorful Relief Society Activity

Combined with the Young Women. A simple activity with a rainbow theme. Eternal life is our “pot of gold” at the end of the rainbow and each color signifies a Christlike attribute. I chose loyalty, the blue color. It reminds me of loyalty to the Savior even at personal cost.

Making Changes

  Looking at Mom now, you hardly would have guessed anything had ever happened. But of course, now she has to be a lot more careful about wh...